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![]() Diary/Timeline so far... >2009 >2010 >2011 January 2011 - Well another success trip to the ISST for Jacobs physio and they got him walking again!... within 2 days! That place is amazing! Jacobs right ankle has been very weak and tending to flop to one side which made walking impossible... they have sorted that ankle out and he can now put his foot flat on the floor! His ankle still has the odd tendacy to flop but we now know how to correct that! I have added some new pics on the website under treatment gallery for you to see what they did with him. We have booked to go back in April for more intensive physio to keep him going! Also we have now had confirmation that Jacob can go to Victoria school - a special needs disabled school - so they can now help us keep up with the physio. Its great being in Germany and them getting him to walk but we have to maintain it here, as you know through our diary we have found this really hard doing this ourselves... now we have some help! Martyn and I went and had a good look around the school just before we went to Germany and its brilliant... they have all the equipment Jacob needs... obviously not everything that Germany have BUT the best we can do in this country. So our hope is to maintain his walking now... he isnt walking unaided... ie Martyn and I hold his hand... or if an adult sits in his wheelchair he can push that... his legs are a lot stronger and he can stand on his own unaided for about a minute or so, so the plan is to keep him going and to get him walking unaided, if not here definitely in Germany in April. So back on track and hopefully keep improving Jacobs walking! We are also underway with a charity night in March to raise more funds as again we do have to pay for the physio in Germany... which works about 800 euros per day... and he will be doing 8 days physio in April... it isn't cheap but worth every penny to see Jacob walking again! he was so chuffed with himself he smiled constantly for the 6 days he was there! he did manage to do a few steps unaided as well and he was really chuffed with himself for that! so no more crawling about and being carried about by us! give our backs a rest as he isnt exactly light! so another positive update! will keep you posted on how he gets on at Victoria school! February 2011 - Well February saw more improvements for Jacob after his Lumbar Puncture in Nov and his physio in January. He is still managing to walk about with help! Not long distances at all... but much better than he has been. We are definitely going back in April for more physio as they reckon they can get him walking unaided... so we're desperately trying to manage his walking between now and then... and finally we have some help! Jacob had a couple of taster days at Victoria school this month and loved it! so much so that he wants to be there full time! they are helping us in managing his walking and all other physio that he needs... from the Gym to the Hydro Pool. This school is amazing... and will be helping us with Jacob's wheelchair as it still isn't right... to all sorts of help that we haven't had. The light is at the end of the tunnel as they say! Such a relief at last! We have also noticed that Jacob has more energy and is definitely more alert and on the ball. His focus seems better and he is thinking all the time and wont shut up! something has definitely happened from the 2nd Lumbar and the physio... somedays it almost feels like the old Jacob is back, as he was always on the go and never stopped! he doesn't seem to be so tired and he's full of life! Jacob's birthday was on the 23rd and we got him the new DS XL version, so the screen is bigger for him to see better and to help with his hand/eye co-ordination... In fact he is on it right now playing footy! He had a great birthday this year... and we are off to see XFactor soon, as part of the rest of his pressies! So a great Feb... better than last year I can say! So let's hope these improvements keep coming and will let you know how he gets on at Victoria School!!! March 2011 - Well March was another busy month... Jacob has been able to maintain his walking since we came back from the physio in January... which is great... and he has now started Victoria school full time and everyday they have him walking around as much as he can... plus he is swimming there and all multisports... in and out of his wheelchair... so at last we now have help with his walking in this country! He is really enjoying it there and hopefully they can help us maintain his walking and improve as well! We are off to Germany again in April to hopefully get him walking unaided!! He is probably managing 10 mins at a time with his walking with help at the mo so at least we have something to work with now! We booked more physio while we were in Germany in January as we hadn't had the confirmation of when he could start Victoria... but we made a decision to still go ahead with Germany as the physio is stem cell therapy physio, so different to here... but also we didn't know exactly what Victoria school could do... so fingers crossed, when we get back from Germany in April, Victoria school can keep him walking! Jacob also went to see Xfactor live in London at the O2 as part of his birthday treat... 15 of us hired a mini bus... mums and kids... it was amazing... have put a few pics on the website on the general gallery page. We also had another amazing successful charity night which we managed to raise the money for the April physio... it was a great night... plus one of the manufacturers I work with - Alan Deane - did a half marathon in Reading as well... plus a cake sale from his just left school!! and where my God daughter goes to Ballet they are also doing a fundraiser... so the support we have had from our community have been amazing! Thanks to you all! Since Jacobs 2nd Stem cell lumbar in Nov we have noticed that he has seemed to improve mentally... he is playing his DS Lite more and more and seems more alert and full of energy... Xfactor was a long day - 10am we left and got home at midnight and usually the next day he would be wiped out... I was! but he was up for going for a swim! He has good and bad days with his walking... but he definitely seems to be maintaining the good days and there hasn't seemed to be many bad at all (touch wood) also mentally as well. So... fingers crossed for our next trip to Germany and hopefully he will be walking about a lot more, ready for the summer down the beach!! So next update I hope to have some walking unaided shots!!! April 2011 - Well another month passes by so quickly! and it seems like ages since we have been back from Germany for Jacobs stem cell physio. We did 2 weeks this time for a real boost... and Jacob for the first week did really well ... have added some pics on the treatment gallery. He worked really hard... then... the second week! different story! our 11 year old boy who has started puberty with attitude big time decided he couldn't be bothered! couldn't believe it! tried every trick in the book and nothing! never has he been like that there before! the therapists Bettina and Christiana couldn't believe it either and they really had their work cut out as Jacob is so stubborn when he doesn't want to do something! so the first 4 days were a battle of wills more than anything... well not impressed! BUT one thing we did notice was that although he was being lazy with the walking as that is the hardest part of his disability... his hand and eye co-ordination improved and he had a punch bag he had to hit with his left and then his right hand... and he always got a bit confused with what hand to use... well he was jabbing left to right and did really well... he also seemed to be able to focus a lot more as well with his vision... again this disease has effect his eyes... no-one really knows how as he can still see... its like it takes him longer to focus on something... but since this trip to Germany his focus has improved it's like he has come out of the haze more. Hard to explain but he would on occasions go into his own little dreamworld... he is now more switched on and raring to go! Anyway... 5th day comes and I said to him that he can forget Thorpe Park which we have promised him if he tried really hard and a possibility of getting a dog! which however is what he has always wanted! and my husband doesn't! so stuck right in the middle of this one! BUT as Jacob hadn't tried hard the second week he had blown that! so I reminded him of all this again and again... then on that 5th day I loaded him in the car and forgot his wheelchair! couldn't believe it! got to the ISST... opened the boot and no chair! so guess what! he had to walk! and he walked pretty much all day apart from a few times and we had to borrow one of the other customer's wheelchair! luckily she was on the waterbed at the time so wasn't in it! and then... flight lands and he decided he wants to walk off the plane... so he stood up holding onto the seats in front and then walked down the isle holding on to the top of the seats... it took him a while bless him and the Captain and crew were clapping and cheering him! which of course he loved! he got to the end of the plane and turned to me and said "now I can go to Thorpe Park and get a dog! We were so proud of him for doing that! BUT this may sound hard... but said to him he needs to keep this up for a few months before we will consider the treats! And so far he has... really trying and really trying hard at school as well since he has been back so, long may it continue. So we've been emailed with the same question from some people..."are we planning another trip back?" At this stage not sure... always had gut feeling he would have 2 Lumbars and 2 Physio... well he had 3 physios... Jacob can have a 3rd Lumbar if we want him to... but at the moment after the last 18 months of flying back and forth to Germany we are going to chill a bit and see how he goes... he now has a school that can really help with the physio now and he has his goals and, of course, every week bar being away he has his healing from David, Yoga from Julie and Radionics from Lynda... never would stop that! I do notice when he misses a week with David and the healing he is soooo ready for a boost again... and the yoga has really helped with his hand and eye co-ordination which I hadn't thought about till I saw him in Germany as Jacob and Julie shut the door to the lounge and get on with it so I haven't seen recently what he has been doing... and Lynda as always in the background doing her Radionics on him... so we are going to manage the situation here for a while and see how he goes and hopefully have some fun!! Lets see what May brings... To be honest nothing much to report... still continuing all the treatments etc... no plans for a 3rd Lumbar as the MRI results told us that the disease hasn't spread... so, dare I say it, just getting on with normal life. Jacob is doing brill at school... he is getting a new wheelchair that goes to standing position... as he is now just over 5ft 2inches and 8 stone... he has good strength in his legs for standing but he is now bigger than me and having trouble walking him etc... they can do it at school as they have strapping lads there! and 2 of them do it... but here it's me who is 5ft 2inch and weigh the same as Jacob! and soon he will be catching up with Martyn! so the thought behind it is we can stand him in this new wheelchair... he needs to stand at least 2 hours a day, on and off, for circulation and to keep his legs mobile etc... he also has special knee pads that help and of course his wrestling boots which support his ankles better... so everyday he walks with the help at Victoria school... plus all other exercises etc... which is great. Also, through Mobility, getting a car I can wheel him into... as he is growing and not stopping! so that will be so much easier than having to faff about getting him in and out of the car... especially when its raining! and also sorting the wheelchair as well... trying to limit the amount of transfers we do. He is still doing athletics club after school on a Monday... the hope is to get his upper body stronger so that he can help himself a bit more... And finally won our respite battle... so he is staying 1 night a month at Victoria school so we can have a break... and more importantly spend some quality time with his brother Sam! So after 9 months of fighting we now have the respite/stairlift/ramp for the front door and a new car soon... I never realised how much fighting and shouting we would need to do to get some help, but now we have, it should make life a bit easier. So... thats about it for now... anything else you need to know just drop me an email! |
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